Scenarios for Parents

Growing Up Fast

You and your 13-year-old daughter saw the big, new blockbuster, and unfortunately the star smoked and drank. Over ice cream afterward, you seize the chance to ask about your daughter’s attitudes about tobacco and alcohol, and she reveals she’s actually been to a party where underage drinking occurred. What’s your next move?

Communication as the main course — dig in

Suggestion:

Try to get to know your daughter’s friends and their parents. Also, knowing where future parties are held, and who is attending and supervising is key. Let your daughter know she has plenty of options if she finds herself in a similar situation again. One is to call you. Another is to hang out with other friends who are trying new activities. And let her know she can communicate with you … because you’re there to help.