Ages 14-17:
Making Views and Rules Clear
When you talk about alcohol and drugs, make your views and rules clear. Take the time to discuss why you have those views, and be sure to enforce the rules you set.
INSTEAD OF:
TRY:
“You know the right thing to do.”
“If you ever have a question about alcohol or drugs, you can count on me to listen and answer honestly.”
“You know what I expect.”
“I expect you to try your best in school. Using alcohol or drugs can prevent your brain from functioning at its best.”
“Never get in a car with someone who is drunk or high.”
“If you’re ever in a situation where you have to choose between getting in a car with someone who has been drinking or using drugs, and calling me, I want you to know you can call me and I’ll come get you with no questions asked.”